Someone in the last couple of weeks said to me "you guys live quite a social life down here don't you?" I immediately said 'No', but then I started to think about it. I'm pretty sure both of us think of ourselves as bordering on hermits, we spend a lot of time traveling and mainly just with each other. We're happy with that, but I wonder if our belief in how we live is really valid. If I use the last couple of months as an example, then we are far from hermits. I actually had to start writing engagements in the calendar so we wouldn't forget somewhere we said we'd go. On top of that, This Is Mexico and that means that things happen spontaneously a lot; you run into friends and end up going to dinner, people drop by and it turns into a whole afternoon, you stop on the road and chat for an hour when you pass a friend's car... you see where I'm going here? We are pretty damn social I guess. Why am I so shocked to figure that out?
Last week we drove back over to Akumal to get ready to go to Isla Mujeres for the Blogger Meet. I tried for the 2 days we were here to upload a post on our fast trip to the big Mercado the day we left. No bloody joy! Blogger would not let me upload more than one picture before it stalled and spun endlessly. I'm stubborn though so I managed to get 5 pics up before we left. I'm going to put that post up now, finally I seem to be able to upload. It's all out of whack on time though, just deal OK?
So, then we went off to Isla and had a fantabulous weekend hanging with the funniest and most creative people I've met in a long, long time. It's intimidating, you know? Most of these kids are young enough to be my kid and some my grandkid and they can write like Hemingway and should really be screenwriters making huge money in LA. It's odd, I adjusted pretty easily to being old (except the vision thing, hate that) and fat (well, not really adjusted but resigned) and yet, I cling stubbornly to my sense of smartness and wittiness and coolness - I'll have to work on getting the ego to let that go too. These are some seriously talented, witty, funny, and incredibly hip/cool people! It's good for me. I consider it yet another milestone in my goal to be the poster child for growing old graciously.
In fact, here is a picture of me about a half hour after we returned from Isla. It's the only nap I've had for weeks, really!

Not that I'm trying to out-Mexico anyone or anything, but I'm really late in posting about the weekend and then the hellaciously busy week that followed. I have an excuse though, I hit the ground running on Monday and had another blogger guest and a 3 day solo trip to Mérida and only internet cafes and major work and drama about our condo in Akumal and ... did I mention that my computer died and I've only got Mimi's to use? and no access to my old email or addresses or pictures? I think I've got the excuse bases covered here, you hear me Wayne?
Last week we drove back over to Akumal to get ready to go to Isla Mujeres for the Blogger Meet. I tried for the 2 days we were here to upload a post on our fast trip to the big Mercado the day we left. No bloody joy! Blogger would not let me upload more than one picture before it stalled and spun endlessly. I'm stubborn though so I managed to get 5 pics up before we left. I'm going to put that post up now, finally I seem to be able to upload. It's all out of whack on time though, just deal OK?
So, then we went off to Isla and had a fantabulous weekend hanging with the funniest and most creative people I've met in a long, long time. It's intimidating, you know? Most of these kids are young enough to be my kid and some my grandkid and they can write like Hemingway and should really be screenwriters making huge money in LA. It's odd, I adjusted pretty easily to being old (except the vision thing, hate that) and fat (well, not really adjusted but resigned) and yet, I cling stubbornly to my sense of smartness and wittiness and coolness - I'll have to work on getting the ego to let that go too. These are some seriously talented, witty, funny, and incredibly hip/cool people! It's good for me. I consider it yet another milestone in my goal to be the poster child for growing old graciously.
In fact, here is a picture of me about a half hour after we returned from Isla. It's the only nap I've had for weeks, really!

Not that I'm trying to out-Mexico anyone or anything, but I'm really late in posting about the weekend and then the hellaciously busy week that followed. I have an excuse though, I hit the ground running on Monday and had another blogger guest and a 3 day solo trip to Mérida and only internet cafes and major work and drama about our condo in Akumal and ... did I mention that my computer died and I've only got Mimi's to use? and no access to my old email or addresses or pictures? I think I've got the excuse bases covered here, you hear me Wayne?



8 Comments:
Just glad to know you're back up and blogging.........Being "social" in Mexzico as you say is way more spontaneous and I SO love that.....no plans - it just happens!
For a couple of anti-social people I found you two very social. Especially Mimi....and a beer or two in her hand. lol.
Was great meeting you too!
Old and fat and anti-social??? Not the words I would use to describe the fabulous Jonna! You and Mimi were leading the pack baby, at least I (as a "young one") couldn't keep up!
Was wonderful meeting you both, two very special people (and intelligent and witty writers) that I know I will be seeing again.
Is this the poster child for aging gracefully your looking for??? http://www.spinlocal.com/artwork/file/7/medium/Grannies-Anonymous.jpg?1189159345 LOL!!
I can't even believe for a second you could question your coolness!! You are plenty social, hip, cool and CHIDO to me!! I am seriously gonna come party crash you in Akumal one of these days- maybe even in true Mexican drop in style!!
You gotta be kidding, Jonna. You and Mimi are two of the flat-out coolest people I know. And I spent two years at the San Francisco Art Institute so I should know 'cool', 'hip' and 'creative' when I run across it. You two rock!
Ilene
Well, you are way cool, of course, I am also an old fogey, so what do I know? Nope, I know cool when I experience it! You ARE the coolest.
Why do you think you have such a busy social life? Everyone wants to hang out with the cool kids!
regards,
Theresa
Some people just have that something undefinable that makes people want to be around them. You both have that going on. I think you have learned part of the secret to staying young...never admit you are too old to do anything, to learn anything or to be anything. Just keep being yourselves. You are both loved. Excuses and all!
Awww! Thanks guys! I loved the granny pic Lisa! I'm still 18 on the inside ;)
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